Mix-n-Match
Speed Dating Tips
1.
Your date will last for 5 minutes. First impressions
are crucial. Make sure you are well groomed, upbeat
and that you are having a dialogue not giving a monologue.
2.
Turn your cell phones off. Taking calls in the middle
of a date is just plain rude.
3.
Have good eye contact and smile. Make your date feel
as though he/she is the only one in the room.
4.
Walk in with No expectations of finding "the one".
Relax and have fun with all the participants. It's a
party-have no expectations and you will probably have
better luck.
5.
There is no "on the spot" rejection since
you don't receive your results that evening. So, feel
free to reject or accept whomever you want on the scorecard.
6.
Mingle at the breaks. DATING AND FINDING YOUR MATCH IN
LIFE IS A NUMBERS GAME!!! The strategy of the 5-minute
formal date is just a point of introduction. Make the
most of it!
7.
If you come to the event with a friend or friends, sit
apart from them. People catch on that you are friends
and will say "no" because they don't want
to be compared/judged.
8.
Consider saying YES to at least one person at the event
that you would normally reject
..Try to OPEN THE
DOOR to someone younger, older, different occupation
etc.
9.
Your date tried their best to make an impression on
you, don't forget to let him/her know how much you enjoyed
meeting them.
10.
Don't spend too much time taking notes! Move quickly to
your next date to make the most of your time. Notes should
just be a quick way to jog your memory when you receive
your matches (hair color, unusual job, their name etc).